We haven’t seen Taylor Swift on the radar is awhile, but that could only mean she is crafting up a big return. And in regular Taylor fashion, new music would only mean a new love affair to write about, so, who is she dating?

Allegedly she’s dating British actor Joe Alwyn. A source tells the Sun: “This isn’t a new couple alert or a secret relationship. The only people this has been a secret to is the media because Taylor and Joe’s closest friends and their families were aware they have been together for several months.”

Taylor has always been open with who she’s dating, but after recent years of relationships ruined by the media, she’s laying low.

“After her 1989 tour and all the attention Taylor received, she learned she had to be more protective of her personal life and she and Joe decided early on to keep their private life private. After what happened with Tom Hiddleston, they were determined to keep it quiet. Taylor and Joe are the real deal. This is a very serious relationship.”